Today, we are joined by Dr. Jacob Towery and Michael Luo to
promote their upcoming, two-day Social Anxiety Marathon.
Jacob Towery, MD is an adolescent and adult psychiatrist
and therapist in private practice in Palo Alto, California.
Michael Luo is a fourth year medical student at the Chicago Medical
School.
More on them at the end of the show notes, but here’s the
scoop. Jacob and Michael will be offering a mind-blowing, two-day
marathon for anyone who struggles with social anxiety, which
includes shyness, public speaking anxiety, and performance anxiety.
They will both be present, along with more than ten experts in
TEAM-CBT, coaching participants in the latest tools for quickly
overcoming all social anxiety.
And here’s the amazing thing. You can come and attend, and
transform your life, for only a $20 donation to one of their four
listed amazing charities.
How cool is that? Don’t pass this up. It will be an in-person,
hands-on training experience designed to free you from the fears
that narrow your life. You will learn and participate in cognitive
therapy exercises, identifying and smashing the distorted thoughts
that trigger social anxiety, as well as the Self-Defeating Beliefs
that trigger social anxiety like the Spotlight and Brushfire
Fallacies, the Approval Addiction, and more.
They will also illustrate and lead you in a wide variety of
Interpersonal Exposure Techniques, including Smile and Hello
Practice, Self-Disclosure (which Michael demonstrates in real time
on today’s show), Rejection Practice, Flirting Training, Shame
Attacking Exercises, and more.
David claims that Jacob is likely the world’s top expert in
Shame Attacking Exercises, and we illustrate several on the
podcast. Rhonda described a Shame Attacking Exercise that I
challenged her with. It was incredibly terrifying, but turned out
really well!
David also described the impact of self-disclosure on a wealthy
and powerful businessman he treated who was so insecure that he was
even terrified to be around his wife and children.
People who are socially anxious nearly always try hard to hide
their negative feelings out of a sense of shame, so others, even
friends and family and colleagues, typically aren’t aware of how
they feel inside. Michael courageously discloses his own negative
thoughts that triggered feelings of social anxiety at being around
Jacob, his mentor.
Maybe I’ll make a mistake.
I might be wasting Jacob’s time.
Then he might not want to mentor me.
These thoughts caused feelings of loneliness and shame. I felt
much closer to Michael when he disclose these feelings. Jacob added
that he was totally unaware that Michael had been struggling with
these thoughts and feelings.
The treatment of social anxiety is profoundly serious, because
we are involved in changing the lives of people who are suffering
and lonely and inhibited, but the treatment can also be fun,
hilarious and of course, enlightening.
Michael wraps up the show by describing the transformation this
training has had on his own life.
If you wish to attend, act rapidly because space is limited and
will be given out on a first-come, first-serve basis. I hope you
can attend, and make sure you let Rhonda and David know about your
experiences!
Thanks for listening today!
Rhonda, Jacob, Michael, and David
About the Podcast
This podcast features David D. Burns MD, author of "Feeling Good, The New Mood Therapy," describing powerful new techniques to overcome depression and anxiety and develop greater joy and self-esteem. For therapists and the general public alike!