Aug 21, 2023
Healthy Version |
Unhealthy Version |
Sadness, grief when you’ve lost someone or something you loved |
Depression, worthlessness, hopelessness |
Healthy fear when you’re in danger |
Anxiety, nervousness, worry, and panic, and phobias |
Healthy remorse when you’ve hurt someone you love |
Neurotic guilt, blaming yourself for something you’re not entirely, or at all, responsible for |
Healthy inadequacy and awareness of your very real shortcomings and limitations |
Worthlessness, inferiority |
Missing someone you love |
Desperate loneliness, abandonment, feeling unlovable |
Discouragement when you fail or when things don’t work you |
Hopelessness |
Sharing your anger in the spirit of love and respect |
Unhealthy anger, aggression, acting out your anger with the goal of hurting or upsetting the other person, or getting back at them |